'A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and visiting with her mother. As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance upon her daughter,
'Don't forget your sisters,' she advised, swirling
the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. 'They'll be more important as you
get older. No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you
love the children you may have, you are still going to need sisters. Remember
to go places with them now and then; do things with them.'
'Remember that 'sisters' means ALL the women. your
girlfriends, your daughters, and all your other women relatives too. 'You'll
need other women. Women always do.'
What a funny piece of advice!' the young woman
thought. Haven't I just gotten married? Haven't I just joined the couple-world?
I'm now a married woman, for goodness sake! A grownup! Surely my husband and
the family we may start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!'
But she listened to her mother. She kept contact
with her sisters and made more women friends each year. As the years tumbled
by, one after another, she gradually came to understand that her mother really
knew what she was talking about. As time and nature work their changes and
their mysteries upon a woman, sisters are the mainstays of her life. After more
than 50 years of living in this world, here is what I've learned:
THIS SAYS IT ALL:
Time passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Jobs come and go.
Love waxes and wanes.
Men don't do what they're supposed to do.
Hearts break.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favours.
Careers end.
BUT.........
Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how
many miles are between you. A girl friend is never farther away than needing
her can reach. When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk
it by yourself, the women in your life will be on the valley's rim, cheering
you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the
valley's end. Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside
you....Or come in and carry you out. Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters,
daughters-in-law, sisters, sisters-in-law, Mothers, Grandmothers, aunts,
nieces, cousins, and extended family: all bless our life! The world wouldn't be
the same without women, and neither would I. When we began this adventure
called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead.
Nor did we know how much we would need each other. Every day, we need each
other still.'
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